By the family

Sept. 24, 2026: Alan Byron Ré, of Bronxville, New York, passed away peacefully in his sleep at home on Wednesday, September 23, 2026. He was 86 years old.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, on May 12, 1940, Alan was the son of the late Olive L’Heureux and Charles Nobles, and was raised with devotion by his adoptive father, the late Charles John Ré, the Consul General of the Republic of San Marino. Alan graduated from Regis High School in 1958 and went on to attend the College of the Holy Cross before earning his Bachelor of Science degree from Columbia University. He proudly served his country in the United States Marine Corps Reserve from 1959 to 1964.

On June 5, 1965, Alan married the love of his life, Kathleen Regina McCormick. To everyone who knew them, it was always “Alan and Kathy”—never one without the other. Together they built a life rooted in unwavering devotion and deep partnership. They began their family at Peter Cooper in Stuyvesant Town before moving to Bronxville, where they raised their four children, and where Alan spent 21 years commuting to Manhattan as a Managing Director and senior institutional fixed income salesman at Dillon, Read & Co., later retiring from UBS. His retirement was celebrated with a toast-filled dinner at Keens Steakhouse in New York City among close colleagues, family, and lifelong friends.

Alan was larger than life to all who knew him—an elegant gentleman with a playful sense of humor, an unforgettable laugh, and a signature euphemism for every occasion. Joyful and optimistic every single day, he was welcoming, kind, and wildly charismatic. When we grieve someone, we also grieve who we were with them, and with Alan, everyone felt special and seen. He delighted in every small exchange of his day, and all who were lucky enough to be in his orbit will miss him deeply. He was genuinely interested in others and endlessly interesting himself. Contentment came naturally to Alan, who found immense joy in life’s simple pleasures: a rare roast beef sandwich on hollowed-out French bread after Sunday Mass, diving into the ocean waves at Fire Island, or driving with the sunroof open and windows down, blasting whatever music his kids were listening to at the time.

An avid tennis player, Alan spent summers playing at the Saltaire Yacht Club on Fire Island—where he would fly into the bay on a seaplane to find Kathy waiting on the dock, waving him in with all four kids in tow. He later continued his tennis game at the Bronxville Field Club. He cherished his weekly poker games at the Siwanoy Country Club, where his camaraderie and quick wit graced the table for over two decades. He enjoyed Sunday football, friendly wagers, and lively backgammon, which he taught to his children and grandchildren. A devout Catholic and faithful parishioner of St. Joseph’s Roman Catholic Church in Bronxville, Alan lived his faith through quiet, direct action. Alongside Kathy, he devoted countless hours to the Sisters of Charity of New York, cooking multi-course holiday meals for the Sisters at the New Jewish Home in the Bronx and managing move-in logistics as they transitioned to new residences. His compassion extended to everyday acts of kindness, such as calling a dear friend whose vision was fading to read him articles from the daily newspaper.

Alan was a loving and devoted husband to his wife, Kathy, of 61 years; a steadfast and inspiring father to Jono and Daniel Ré, Katie Ré Scheidt and her husband Eric, and Meghan Ré; a doting and adored grandfather—affectionately known as “Pop”—to Olivia, Madeline, Gunther, Julia, Chloe, Charlotte, Jackson, and Ryan; a cherished godfather to Jane Berger; and a loving brother to Chip Ré and his partner, BJ Trentman. He was preceded in death by his brother, Tom Ré.

Alan leaves behind a family who loved him beyond measure. He was a wonderful man and the kind of mentor whose lessons will guide his family for the rest of their lives. They were incredibly lucky to have him and will remain forever grateful to God for the time they were blessed to share with him.

The family extends their deepest gratitude and love to Nan Chantharotorn, whose tireless care, dedication, and affection brought comfort and dignity to Alan during his final days.

Visitation & Funeral Services

Family and friends are invited to pay their respects during visitation on Tuesday, September 29, from 2-4 p.m. and 6-8 p.m., at Fred H. McGrath & Son Funeral Home, 20 Cedar St., Bronxville, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, September 30, at 10:45 a.m. at St. Joseph’s Roman Catholic Church, 15 Cedar St., Bronxville, NY, followed by cremation in accordance with Alan’s wishes. His remains will ultimately rest in the family plot at Bronxville Cemetery.

Memorial Contributions

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Alan’s honor to the Sisters of Charity of New York at scny.org.